Well you're sure to feel like crap ....... see how you feel later. If there's anything they really need to say - they can always say it on the telephone.
Of course I agree with Dona! I agree with everybody all the time, but especially Dona. I also know that you are too ornery to stay sick for very long. Two weeks is about enough, don't you think?
Oh dear. My thinking was that his relatives probably won't speak to you after his demise so it doesn't matter if you offend them. But obviously you don't want to make things worse than they have to be.
And be sure to make that appointment.
I'll have them put him on the list but will tell them not to inform him that he is dieing...I will tell them that when I feel it's the right time...his brother has his own demons to fight with Chemo treatments.
Who decides who goes on the list? ...... I'm sure the home won't want dozens of people contacting them. If it's up to you .... don't have him put on the list. People like that make me sick.
Don't neglect your own health. I know you have lots on your mind but you need to keep wel...