Ypu could have really done with your BFF at this time. I'm not surprised you didn't remember hubby's name .... he didn't figure in the friendship!
I'm sure it will have been a difficult day for your daughter. When my mom died - every time anyone mentioned her to me - I just burst...
daughter went back to work today...when she gets out we are going downtown to order flowers!!!
BFF's hubby just called with sympathies...I didn't know who it was at first...the name didn't ring a bell with me !!