Trix... I just had to look up "grinders" but anything with BLT can't be bad.
And life is certainly what you make it, Obviously there are some things you can't control but for the main part ... the onus is on you. Let him wallow. :))
MD...i just smile when he talks like that...your life is what you make it and i refuse to fill my mind with negative vibes...don't want them...don't need them !!!! i will not be dragged into his pit of hell!!!!
Trix.... there's no point trying to argue with someone of that mentality. Trouble is... you can get sick of biting your tongue. So let his arteries clog... you're not his keeper, those arteries are his responsibility. I bet he'd drink to that!!
Hi Trix.... no doughnuts last Sunday. I'd stop going! :)
I don't envy you. It's impossible to feel settled when you don't know from one day to the next what he's going to do. With my first husband.... I ended up looking for somewhere for him to go. I think it really is mental abu...