You can always rely on me to find something to absolve us of blame. You had/have the stress of hubby and now the worry about your own health:
http://www.webmd.com/diet/features/stress-weight-gain#1
Good morning Trix ........ it's 55 and sunny but I'm too lazy to go out anywhere.
You must "train" daughter to bring you the occasional goodies. Things often taste nicer when someone else has chosen them.