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trix abound · Mar 29, 2016 14:58
LOL....he always says we will probably put him in a nursing home when he gets old...hell....I say..."why wait"!!!!!...LOL
MD · Mar 29, 2016 14:45
It definitely got better for me for the very same reason. Then I just went one step further and distanced myself. You have to do what's best for yourself. And you know he'd never cope on his own. LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
trix abound · Mar 29, 2016 14:29
life is nicer now...not a care (for him) in the world :)
MD · Mar 29, 2016 14:23
How can you care?  He doesn't make it easy. And even if he did .... you couldn't care now ..... too much water under the bridge.
trix abound · Mar 29, 2016 14:11
LOL....and he wonders why I don't care anymore!!!!!!!
MD · Mar 29, 2016 14:03
Sadly .... drunks seem to say what they really think .... unless they say things that they know will hurt the most. I don't know which is worse. http://susandennis.livejournal.com/ http://video.nest.com/live/susandennis
trix abound · Mar 29, 2016 13:48
I was always amazed at the things he said to someone he supposedly loved!!!  even I had my limits!!!
MD · Mar 29, 2016 13:41
Bared, gritted teeth and awful glaring/staring eyes. Some drunks are funny but most seem plain nasty. Wine and whisky are my hubby's tipples ..... neither do him any good.
trix abound · Mar 29, 2016 13:32
PS....and he always thought he was quite desirable when he was drunk!!!!
trix abound · Mar 29, 2016 13:31
God...I hate drunks....he used to get right in my face as if I couldn't hear him or something!!!!
MD · Mar 29, 2016 13:23
I'm a "dates" person. It irritates me but that's the way it goes. Still ..... it means I have plenty of dates to celebrate. LOL Words can hurt as much as weapons. Hubby used to say things when he was drunk and not remember what he'd said next day. Then he'd wonder why I wasn't pa...
trix abound · Mar 29, 2016 13:08
I don't remember the dates....it's the words I remember...his words were like a kick in the stomach so many times!!!
MD · Mar 29, 2016 12:57
I can think of nothing worse than dementia.
MD · Mar 29, 2016 12:55
I can remember dates of incidents so clearly ..... my first hubby finally cleared off in 1979 and I can still remember so many things he did. And don't get me started on second hubby.   LOL!!!!!
trix abound · Mar 29, 2016 12:52
sometimes I think dementia would be a blessing!!! but I would hate to forget my kids and the good times we have!
trix abound · Mar 29, 2016 12:48
hubby used to gripe because I remembered things he did from years ago...I think I remember them so well because you don't expect your hubby to do or say things like that to you!!
MD · Mar 29, 2016 12:30
I think the only way I could forgive is if I forgot .... I mean really forgot ..... as in amnesia or dementia. This is where not caring helps such a lot......... dulls things. Have you just been looking at the nest cams? Nothing much seems to be going on. Nice link to the junco b...
trix abound · Mar 29, 2016 12:18
MD...she's a better person than I am....I find forgiving to be very hard!! LOL....thats not fair saving dirty dishes for you to wash!!!!
MD · Mar 29, 2016 12:00
BJ does me a lovely meal but oh the pots and pans I have to wash. Plus .... sometimes she leaves a few extra from the day before!!!!! I sooo agree with that mother. I thought the article was going to say she was ok for him to be paroled. I'd never be able to forgive, let alone fo...
trix abound · Mar 29, 2016 11:55
I noticed the Juncos have been coming daily ...gorgeing on food for their big trip to the north...they dislike warm weather....they will be back in the fall!!!  http://www.allaboutbirds.org/guide/dark-eyed_junco/id
 
 

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