Good. I worried that you'd weaken. I try not to give more to either of my kids. They seem perfectly rational people but I wouldn't like either of them to fester over some perceived "advantage/cash" that the other one was getting. LOL!!!
And remember ....... don't be too polite ...... remind daughter at Mall's that she has to be paying something.
Do you remember when hubby first went into hospital ...... he said that some people could/would take advantage of you? I don't know who he was thinking of ......
You found history at Mall's!
I suppose it's to be expected that some things aren't going to be what you would choose. I take it she knows she can't be knocking walls down etc.
I'd still be tempted to detect at your place. After the first 100 or so disappointments you could giv...