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Helen Boo · Apr 25, 2018 14:35

Yup, you're right. It's too far away from everything. I changed my mind.

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trix abound · Apr 25, 2018 14:26

and,sadly, this delays hubby getting into a nursing home.

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trix abound · Apr 25, 2018 14:25

MD...didn't need a bond until the judge asked how much money hubby has...and it's really not much at all.

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trix abound · Apr 25, 2018 14:23

Hi Moose...thank you...my son is getting the lawyer...I'm getting the bond...son and I are doing a co-guardianship...I just know that the law states that I have legal rights to half of hubbys estate and money.

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MD · Apr 25, 2018 14:10

Hi Moose.

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MD · Apr 25, 2018 14:09

Trix ...... I was baffled about the bond business because we don't do that in the UK.

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Moose · Apr 25, 2018 13:55

Hi Trix... Your being baffled is exactly why you must get a lawyer. This is not about getting screwed by a lawyer, it is about getting screwed by the government on a technicality. The lawyer will help you take the proper steps in the proper order and do all the right paperwork...

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trix abound · Apr 25, 2018 13:45

Good morning MD....I, too, am baffled...and shocked...thinking this was the last step...and now we're right back where we started from...I remember now...hubbys lawyer said I should get a lawyer so I don't lose my half!!!!

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MD · Apr 25, 2018 13:23

Good morning Trix ....... I'm absolutely baffled about the bond.

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trix abound · Apr 25, 2018 0:17

I think court appointed lawyers only get $250.00 to $300.00. I thought a bond was something I could get from the court, but I have to go to an insurance agency.

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MD · Apr 25, 2018 0:07

Somebody pays him but I know what you mean ..... he's getting nothing out of hubby. I hope you don't have to pay out too much. So that's another thing you've got to arrange.

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trix abound · Apr 24, 2018 23:57

hubbys lawyer was court appointed...I think he's free.

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MD · Apr 24, 2018 23:04

So maybe hubby's lawyer really was being helpful. Maybe he knows she will get it done speedily ..... then he can get his money. Lawyers are never poor. :D

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tag · Apr 24, 2018 22:49

I don’t know Helen. I think I liked ge other view. Could watch TV with her. Lol

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trix abound · Apr 24, 2018 22:36

son googled her...guardianship and family stuff.

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MD · Apr 24, 2018 21:44

I could be wrong but he has your hubby's best interests in mind .... not yours. Maybe I'm just reading too much into it. Can you Google and find out anything about the lawyer he's suggested? If only Homely was available for advice.

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trix abound · Apr 24, 2018 21:34

really????? I thought he was leading us to someone who knows about what we need....though he did say to mention his name when we call her.

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MD · Apr 24, 2018 21:14

I hate to say it but is hubby's lawyer pointing you to a lawyer he knows? A lawyer who might be working hand in glove with him? Would your city daughter know of a lawyer?

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trix abound · Apr 24, 2018 20:58

we left with nothing...not even a piece of paper!!!!! hubbys lawyer gave us a name of a lawyer to get...he said if things are not done right, I will lose my 50%.

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MD · Apr 24, 2018 20:07

OMG Trix ....... how many more hoops to jump through?